You can't understand how blessed women and men are that are in the greek system until you become a part of it. You can't understand what they are all about until you are a part of it, it is something indescribable. I've only been a part of it for a few weeks and I can already see all these beautiful things coming from it. That tells you that it really is something special.
You start with a Rho Gam group and they become your family for the week. We all, except one, livd in the same hall so we could always hang out and chat whenever. You also have a Rho Gam, she is your "mom" for the week. She is there when you cry, laugh, and get frustrated. She leads you throughout the week with a smile. She teaches you so much about sorority life and that it's a big blessing. You become so close with these women and it doesn't even matter that at the end you probably won't all join the same house. You still have each other in a BIGGER sister of sororities at your school. Through everything, they are there for you. (Plus they all give amazing hugs)
Sorority life isn't for everyone, I know this. However, I encourage everyone to participate in recruitment. You truly make amazing friends and meet beautiful women that inspire you to become better. Greek life is SO much more than any rumor or stereotype you hear. You become a part of something so much bigger than yourself. You gain 100 plus sisters/brothers. You learn that the money you pay isn't nearly enough for the INCREDIBLE friends you make. It is an amazing blessing.
I'm an ADPi, I wouldn't change it for anything in the world. I truly cry of happiness every time I think of my sorority and how beautifully amazing all the women are.
